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The Top 10

Find out the first 10 things you

should do after getting engaged

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To-Do Before “I DO”

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What’s Your Style?

LET’S GET REAL: Realistic Budgets

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PHOTOGRAPHER: Sarah Alleman Photography

ON LOCATION: Race + Religious

CREATIVE DIRECTION + PLANNING: Taylor Baxter Olivares + Rachel Rose

BRIDE’S ATTIRE: GOSSAMER + The Lucky Sixpence

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HAIR + MAKEUP: Kassandra Mireles

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WRITTEN BY: RENA SWEENEY, ALCHEMY EVENTS

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IT’S A NEW YEAR AND IN THE WEDDING INDUSTRY, THAT MEANS A NEW GROUP of

freshly engaged couples. Congratulations to all of you who got engaged over the holidays!

You’re probably wondering what things are most important to do right away. Where do you

start?

We know you’ve got a handle on things like telling everyone, having your ring insured, etc.

so we’re going to dive right into the nitty gritty of what your top planning priorities should

be so you can start off on the right foot.

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SET A BUDGET

I know this isn’t the fun part of being newly engaged BUT everything hinges on this to-do list item. You don’t want to make

decisions before knowing how they will fit into the grand scheme of things. Even just locking down a venue is difficult if you don’t

know how much you have to spend or if it would take up your entire budget or not.

If you don’t know where to start, I suggest one of two methods. The first is to look at what you can realistically spend. How much

do you have in savings? How much can you afford to put towards your wedding during the time of your engagement without

putting yourself under financial stress? Will parents be helping pay? If so, while you’re discussing budget with them, find out their

expectations such as if they want to be the decision makers or if you’ll make the decisions on how to spend the money they

contribute.

If you have savings already and aren’t sure how high you should expect to go with your budget, I tell couples to first think about

what the “no way” number is. As in “no way would I want to spend that much on a wedding.” That’s going to be the number that

you know you need to stay under. So no matter which end of the price spectrum you start from, either way you’ll be able to

determine what’s right for you.

DETERMINE YOUR PRIORITIES

I personally feel like one of your top priorities should be photography. Choose a more basic bar package and get the extra hours

of coverage on your wedding day - you’ll never regret it! People don’t walk away from a wedding complaining that it wasn’t their

FAVORITE brand of vodka, but couples DO regret not going with their top pick or having enough hours of coverage for their

wedding.

CREATE YOUR GUEST LIST(S)

Everything hinges on the number of guests you invite. You don’t know how far your budget has to go or how big your venues need

to be if you don’t have a general idea of who you want to be there celebrating with you. Start with a rough list of people you HAVE

to invite and then work on the “B” and “C” lists.

DECIDE IF YOU NEED A WEDDING PLANNER

Options range from event management (“day or month of coordination”) to full design and planning services.

One of the most difficult things I encounter as a wedding planner is when a client comes to me already having other contracts in

place. They may not have realized what they signed, that the vendor doesn’t have a great reputation or just that it may not have

been the best fit for you, your aesthetic or budget.

It makes things much easier when, as a planner, we can start from the beginning to make sure all the pieces are in place and you

fully understand the contracts you’re signing. Simply put, you don’t know what you don’t know. I often have clients tell me there

are so many aspects they would have never thought of and appreciated that were brought up before signing with their vendors.

SELECT YOUR VENUE(S)

Ok, it’s no surprise that this is also toward the top of our list! You need to first decide what your style is so you can begin to narrow

down venues that will work with your vision. Your vision can be very broad at this point; you don’t need to rush to Pinterest!

This could be as simple as knowing you don’t want a rustic look, that you want a very sleek and modern look or if you have to get

married in the summer that a fully indoor space might be a must. This will help you start to narrow down locations that you like

and then you can begin to ask for prices to see which of those will work within your budget.

Once you’ve found your dream venue, you’ll be able to start to design for the space, think about what your personal style and

clothing will look like, etc. If your ceremony and reception are at different locations, you’ll just need to make sure each of them

has the same date available.

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SET A DATE!

Since you now have your venue(s) selected, lock in a date with them and that will finally make you officially ready to start booking

other vendors.

BOOK YOUR PHOTOGRAPHY + VIDEO

Photography and videography are next because they are some of the most important vendors you will hire. These are your

memories and the artwork that will hang in your home the rest of your lives and should reflect your own personal style. Couples

often make the mistake of just looking at who might be in their price range, however, I have my couples do it differently.

First we start by identifying what style of photography (or videography) they prefer. Do you want a lot of black and whites, light

and airy photos, or more vibrant colors? Photographers are artists and as such, each has their own unique style. However, keep

in mind that if you like the light and airy style but your wedding is at night with a dimly lit ballroom reception, you’re not going to

get the same look as what you’re seeing in that photographer’s portfolio.

This is where it’s particularly important to ask to see a full gallery of a wedding they’ve done that is similar to what yours will be.

Ask to see examples in your location or a similar setting at the same time of day your wedding will take place. What you’re looking

for here is to ensure that the photographer you select can shoot well in the atmosphere you’re creating (whether it’s dimly lit

candlelight or during the day).

Also start to consider if you like more traditional posed photos, more casually posed or a modern take. Once you know what style

you like, then you can look for photographers who have that style and then see which ones are in your price range.

BOOK YOUR ENTERTAINMENT

Entertainment is a must for any good party, whether it’s a live band or DJ. Unless they are a DJ company with multiple people

available, they will typically only be able to do one gig per day so their calendar is going to book up quickly.

SECURE HOTEL ROOM BLOCKS

Although tourism continues to take a hit due to covid, if you’re planning your wedding in an area that gets a lot of conventions or

seasonal traffic, hotels can still book up pretty quickly. This means that sometimes, even if your wedding is a year away, you might

have difficulty finding hotel blocks available for your date. Don’t wait to secure your room blocks. I typically recommend offering

two options at different price points to ensure all of your guests are considered.

IT’S DESIGN TIME!

Ok, go ahead and hit Pinterest! Who are we kidding? We know you’ve already done it! Now is the time to start to narrow down

your vision for the wedding. Note why you like something such as if you like the colors in a bouquet but not the shape. This will

help your vendors guide you into selections that fit the aesthetic you decide on.

If you’re a couple without a strong vision going in, just knowing a very general idea of what you like, you can also just collect

anything that speaks to you and then go back and group things.

When it comes down to it, if you have a few things that are one style but many, many more that are another style, it will be clear

which is the direction you should go for your wedding.

Now that you know what you’re looking for you’ll be able to determine what other vendors you need. As you’ve probably noticed,

your priority is booking those vendors who can only do one event per day because you want to go ahead and get them locked in.

I hope this list has been helpful and if you haven’t already, make sure to request one of our NOW Wedding Planners and check

out NOWWeddingMagazine.com for additional planning resources. Happy Planning!

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NINE TO FIFTEEN MONTHS PRIOR

n Announce engagement to family and friends and

plan an engagement party

n Choose wedding date, preferably more than one in

case your preferred venue and/or vendor is booked

n Select wedding attendants

n Establish budget early, with maximum amounts for

each event/vendor/etc.

n Decide on the style, formality and guest-list size for

the wedding

n Select wedding planner

n Reserve ceremony and reception location

n Secure wedding officiant

n Begin compiling guest list and mailing addresses

n Start the selection process for wedding

professionals, including photographer/

videographer, entertainment, ceremony music,

caterer, transportation, florist and stationery

n Start the wedding gown and wedding attendants’

dress search

n Consult travel agent for honeymoon plans. If

traveling abroad, you will need valid passports and

up-to-date immunizations

SIX TO NINE MONTHS PRIOR

n Select gift registries

n Order wedding gown & accessories, including

veil, shoes and undergarments (wear to fittings)

n Choose and order menswear for groom and

attendants

n Take engagement pictures

n Select and order bridesmaids dresses, schedule

fittings, etc.

n Engagement party

n Finalize wedding professionals:

Baker

Caterer

Florist

Photographer

Party Rentals

Ceremony Music

Reception Entertainment

Stationery

Videographer

Other __________________________

DO YOU FEEL AS THOUGH you have a million things to do before you say, “I Do”? Not to worry.

We’ve compiled a time line to help organize all your wedding events. Review the numerous wedding

professionals at NOWWeddingMagazine.com and let them help plan your perfect wedding.

To-Do Before “I DO”

Image Credit: Sarah Alleman Photography

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FOUR TO SIX MONTHS PRIOR

n Finalize guest list and mail Save-the-Date announcement

n Reserve rehearsal dinner location and/or caterers

n Order wedding invitations and thank-you notes

n Hire calligrapher

n Create wedding website with directions, accommodations,

local attractions and other wedding details

n Reserve accommodations for wedding night and out-of-town

guests.

n Book honeymoon and finalize travel documentations, if

necessary

n Order wedding cake, groom’s cake and any other

confections

n Research all legal requirements ­— permits + licenses

n Purchase/rent any decor to be used during the ceremony

and/or reception

TWO TO FOUR MONTHS PRIOR

n Purchase wedding bands and have engraved if desired

n Order favors and gifts. Purchase cake knives, toasting

crystals and other accessories

n Mail out-of-town invitations

n Reserve wedding day beauty appointments for bride and

attendants

n Select wedding readings

n Confirm menu selection and/or bar with caterer

n Book specialty services, including photo booth, ice sculp-

tures, rentals, Second Line, etc.

n Continue writing thank you notes for previous parties,

couple showers, etc.

FOUR TO SIX WEEKS PRIOR

n Mail local invitations

n Begin addressing wedding announcements

n Pick up wedding rings

n Complete name-change documents, if applicable

n Print ceremony programs

n Remember to update wedding website with any changes

n Review banking and insurance information and see what

needs to be updated after you’re married

n Fill out a Change-of-Address at post office, if necessary

TWO WEEKS PRIOR

n Confirm all appointments and finalize professional services:

Baker

Lodging Reservations

Beauty Appointments

Party Rentals

Caterer

Photographer

Ceremony Music

Reception Entertainment

Entertainment

Transportation

Florist

Videographer

Honeymoon Reservation

Other_________________________________

n Arrange for pick-up of wedding gown, if you haven’t done

so already

n Plan seating arrangements, if necessary

n Pick up marriage license

n Plan honeymoon wardrobe, obtain travel tickets and

confirm reservations

n Remember to update wedding website with any event

changes

ONE WEEK BEFORE

n Schedule pick-up and return of tuxedos/suits, if rented

n Prepare final checks to wedding vendors, as well as

donations to ceremony officiants and musicians, if

necessary

THE DAY BEFORE

n Welcome family and friends from out-of-town

n Have honeymoon bags packed

n Gather all wedding day items

n Attend rehearsal dinner and give gifts to wedding party and

family

YOUR WEDDING DAY

n Arrange to see hairstylist and make-up artist BEFORE your

attendants

n Be dressed and ready about two hours before ceremony

for photos

RELAX...

saying “I DO” is the easy part!

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PHOTOGRAPHY

Sarah Alleman Photography

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ON LOCATION

Race + Religious

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CREATIVE DIRECTION + PLANNING

Taylor Baxter Olivares

travelingshootswithtaylor.com

CO-PLANNING

Rachel Rose

rachelroseweddingsandevents.mypixieset.com

FASHION

GOSSAMER

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Don Morphy

donmorphy.com

The Lucky Sixpence

theluckysixpence.co.uk

FLORALS

Violeta’s

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Botanica Wholesale Florist

botanicawf.com

HAIR + MAKEUP

Kassandra Mireles

photosbykassy.mypixieset.com

RENTALS

Sweetheart Rentals

instagram.com/sweetheartrentals

LINENS

AM Linen Rental

amlinenrental.com

TABLE RUNNER

SnassyCrafter

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CALLIGRAPHY

Line Avenue Calligraphy

lineavecalligraphy.com

BRASS BAND

Kinfolk Brass Band

neworleanskinfolk.com

MODELS:

Jamie Bishop + Clemon Terrell

for JEA Model Management

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ABOUT THE VENUE

Race + Religious is a historic multi-

building property filled with artwork

and antiques located in New Orleans’

Lower Garden District at the intersection

of Race and Religious Streets.

Event designer Taylor Baxter Olivares contacted Janie,

owner and designer of The Lucky Sixpence to create

the crown featured in this editorial. Janie’s designs often

include vintage elements and luxurious details.

For her custom creations, like the featured crown, Janie works closely

with her clients to capture their vision. After speaking with the client and

reviewing their inspiration photos, Janie begins work. “I come up with a

design, sketch it out and then look for elements that could work in making

the piece,” she says. “In this case a bronze tone was really important along

with natural organic elements so I selected some bronze leaf shapes and

then gave them a colour treatment to lift the matte bronze to one of a

warmer golden glow. I love to add luxury details to elevate my pieces so

in this case I used warm honey coloured crystal pearls along the base.”

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Jamie is wearing an exquisite tulle dress with petal embellishments and bell sleeves sourced

from GOSSAMER, a US based vintage clothing company, and Clemon is wearing a slate blue

notch lapel suit from Don Morphy, a bespoke menswear company in Dallas, TX. Jamie carries

a parasol of fresh flowers from Botanica Wholesale Florist styled by Violeta’s.

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We love the deckled edge of this

bespoke letterpress invitation suite

by Line Avenue Calligraphy.

The table design incorporated

Vintage French Country ladder

back chairs with rush seats from

Sweetheart Rentals and a gauze

table runner by SnassyCrafter.

Brilliant blooms from Botanica

Wholesale Florist, arranged

by Violeta’s add a splash

of color the design.

Jamie is wearing an ivory

pleated chiffon tiered

gown with a high neckline

sourced from GOSSAMER.

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